In the wake of this recent most recent school shooting I find myself very angry.... I see and understand a lot of facebook posts deriding some people prayer as a response to these tragedies only to be followed by another post shouting you can’t take away my guns. I always try to avoid being political online because it rarely does anything except start fights... I am always trying to find effective way to communicate answers that will bring real change. Splitting the crowd o

Growing up in my broken and dysfunctional home in Los Angeles I worked really hard to tray and make sure everyone was happy. This was especially true with my parents. I knew if they were happy that they might fight less and then my life would be better maybe even happy. I really believed that if I could minimize their conflicts our situation would get better without ever addressing the the real issues in front of me. My parents had some serious relational struggles in their l